Deletion is good for the Soul

I deleted my Face Book account today.. actually deactivated it, in their terms.

I did this for several reasons.

One, I am not sure if I want folks to see me as some photo, some one that just posted photos of the events of their lives, then have folks comment on it in their terms.

I believe that the whole FaceBook phenomenon is good for some folks, but it delves into the truly private lives of others. I am not sure if I want to be that "public".

I enjoyed FB, I did. But and there is always a BUT.

I realized that my curiosity was going both ways. I was looking at folks and folks were looking at me.


Some folks certainly did not have the graciousness of being polite, with the information that was gleamed from my page.

J also somewhat irked me in that he put our lives open to a domestic relationship.

It was almost as he challenge me to our relationship.

I particular did not want that to be spread out in my "public" life. I am out enough with my superiors, neighbors, and my Church.

Who says one must suck face in public to prove a point.

So, I pulled to plug for a lil while until I can re-evaluate everything.

Tis the Season

Tis the Season

I haven't posted in such a long time. I thought that I should before someone says I have left this earth all together.

For reasons, sometimes unknown, even to myself, I have let J back into my world. Yes, I did. Can I say it was love. I am not sure.

It was for some emotional attachment, I know.

He provides me with a cause, a purpose, or companionship.

Who knows.

Maybe it was just The Season.

For doing the best thing, correct thing.

Who knows.

J is certainly younger. He is 24. I am 58.

He doesn't want for much, I have known him for two years.

At times it has been tumultuous, calamitous.... and the such.

J loves to listen to Adele..... so do I.

What Can I say.... Tis the Season.